General Updates from the last year or so.

For family and friends that don’t live close, here’s a general update on the recent big events.  As you may know, Chris graduated from college May of 2005, was offered a good job with Philips Medical and we moved to the Madison area shortly thereafter.  He started in June, we found a nice apartment, got a little Pembroke Welsh Corgi puppy we named Atari, and I found a new job there as well, which I started in August of 2005.  Our little niece was also born in September, and she’s quite possibly the most adorable little girl you will ever see.  With the wedding on October 1st, 2 new jobs, a new puppy, and a move, it was a hectic summer and fall. 

We were looking forward to a calmer 2006, but things never happens the way you think they will.  My grandma was diagnosed with advanced Leukemia in May and passed away in August.  We tried visiting as much as we could over the summer of 2006, but it’s never enough.  We also found out in July that the partnership (and thus the department) Chris was working for was being dissolved, so he had to spend some more time looking for a new position, which he found staying with Philips.  It’s a great company to work for, so we were both glad the opportunity to stay with them came up.  We had also been looking for a new place to live since mid summer, since our apartments were being turned into condos.  With the upheaval at work, we put house hunting on hold until we were sure he had a new position there.  We found a house we liked and closed on it September 15th, the Friday before he started his new position.  We also found a new home for the bunny before moving, and he has been much happier in his new home, where he can roam about not being chased by a crazy little dog.  To celebrate our first home, we had both families over for Thanksgiving.  It turned out to be quite the busy year after all last year!  Perhaps this year will be calmer  ;)

For those of you who aren’t bombarded with the constant stories of our crazy little Atari, here is some background.  First of all, she’s totally nuts.  She never stops running, and wow can she fly.  She has the shortest little legs (being a Corgi and all), but I have never seen such a fast little dog.  She gains on the rabbits she chases around the yard, and loves nothing better than to run full speed.  Well except maybe to bark  ;)  She’s extremely vocal, and extremely smart.  And no, not that “she’s my dog so I think she’s brilliant” kind of smart.  She picks things up very quickly and you can only fool her maybe twice with the same trick, then you best learn a new one.  She’s stubborn and sadly smart enough to realize she can choose not to listen (consequences be damned) if she doesn’t feel like it.  She’s definitely given us a lot of laughs though, that’s for sure.  She loves to be around anyone and loves any attention she can ham out of people.  We have a pair of dogs in the yard behind us that she has coaxed into running back and forth along the fence with her whenever they are all out, and loves nothing more than tackling big dogs to play.  You can also definitely see the “herder” in her, especially if you move at anything faster than a walk down the hallway  ;)  She also has a knack for catching little critters, as I learned early when she was just under a year old and caught her first bird.  Not a fun morning that one, trying to pry a little bird out of her mouth while she refused to let go, being so proud of her first kill.  To say the least, there are not too many dull moments with her around  hehe

A Few Words for Grandma…

It comes to be about time for our first post.  I meant to start posting much earlier, but when we first got our website up and running, my grandmother was in the final stages of advanced Leukemia, which she had been diagnosed with late May of 2006, and she passed away shortly thereafter (in August of 2006).  She was one of the most wonderful people anyone could meet, and at some point I need to put together an album just for her, since she loved pictures so much.  Words cannot begin to express how much I loved this woman and how much she meant to me and most everyone she touched in her life.  She had a hard working life, and did the best she could raising her family, even after losing their father early to a heart attack, and on through her son Jack’s constant illness until he passed away.  Sad as it may be to begin this site with something as sad as losing her, I can’t rightly begin without saying something about her first.  It won’t convey everything I truly want to, because I just don’t have the words (which is why it has taken me so long to even attempt this), but at the least she deserves a small tribute on our page, since she holds such a large spot in our hearts.

The one thing people will always remember most about her is that she always lived, I mean truly lived.  She was always busy, always running other people around, and volunteering on fair committees and the like, as well as running her own little craft fairs and organizing events for people in the apartment building she lived in.  No matter what she did or who she was with, she was always full of energy and full of plans.  She loved to bowl, loved to craft, and just loved being out and doing things, especially outside.  I can’t tell you how many memories of walks in the woods, camping trips, bowling trips, fairs, as well as family gatherings I have. 

We always used to go to her townhouse for the 4th of July because she was up on a huge hill and we could watch the fireworks from 4-5 surrounding towns all from her backyard.  We would get sparklers and I remember well the year dad thought it would be fun to put firecrackers down the bumble bee hole in the side of the hill  ;)  And of course all the sledding we did on that hill in the winters (we didn’t hit the apartments at the bottom of the hill TOO many times), all the Christmases and Easter dinners.  And of course the origins of the infamous Cookie Day.  It started so simply, believe it or not.  Every year we would spend time baking cutout cookies at grandma’s house and then spend the rest of the day decorating them.  Grandma, my mom, my aunt and us kids (sometimes we even got the guys to join in) would sit at the kitchen table for hours putting little colored beads and stars on with toothpicks and a little frosting, creating tinsel on the trees with the edge of a knife.  It has certainly changed a lot since then, but those were the beginnings, and some of the best memories I have.

There were countless camping trips, hikes through the woods, and picking up shells and fossils along the beach.  I think only grandma rivaled the number of rocks I would bring home from our trips.  And our dog Smokey and her definitely had their own thing going  ;)  I can’t tell you how many times she would dig a hole under the back edge of grandma’s chair so she could lay behind her, but would dig too far and tip her backwards into a hole.  Countless trips in general she was with us.  Camping in Florida over winter break, the Band-Aid from the tent poles, and the first (and last) armadillo I ever saw in the wild.  And all the craft fairs we would go to, her, mom and I.  And of course the state fair, where we always stopped to listen to the jazz and country music play while we ate our cream puffs.  I could go on and on about all the good times we had, and about all she had to talk about and everything she did. 

The one thing that struck me was when we were in the hospital after she found out she had less than 6 months left, she told me so many people had regrets and things they wished they had done in their lifetime, but she didn’t have any.  She did the things she wanted to do, and was content with how she lived her life, and the things she had done.  She was such a strong, smart woman and she will always hold a huge part of my heart, and she will always be missed and thought of often, not just by me, but by so many people whose lives she was a part of.  And I will never forget the smile on her face when we saw each other for what we knew would be the last time.  I love you grandma.

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